I was reading PhilcoTV’s goodbye message and thinking about it. It’s sad for him. But in a way it’s also an indictment of our sex negative culture and the insecurity women have about men having sexual fantasies that are not built around themselves.

I’ve already ranted about our sex negative culture and how it tries to enforce a useless and futile morality on both genders who secretly or openly resist it. But one of the more irritating aspects of that morality is how it’s hijacked to defend personal insecurities by women.

Women are trained to insecure. Women’s magazines are full of images that are just as false as any of the drawings in my Favorites gallery. The publishers have the fashion models photo-shopped to be thinner, smaller waisted, stretch the legs, remove skin flaws and delete cottage cheese thighs. But that’s ok according to their audience. The big no-no is to give the bigger breasts or worse, an hour glass figure. Why? Because women find sexually developed women sexually threatening. Advertisers, movie makers and television producers all know this. Want to lose women viewers, make a sympathetic or central female character ‘over’ sexed, especially large breasted unless she is inarguably and comically fat, thus disarming the threat.

That’s one of the reasons the media is full of androgynous ‘female’ images. A great many of those images have women in them that look like they hardly were touched by puberty other than facially. You could quite literally substitute a skinny 12 or 13 year old girl’s body for the lead actresses’ body in most movies or TV series. Why? Because female views won’t be offended [read threatened]. Just listen to what nasty rumors women spread in any work or social setting about a woman who dares to have a sexually developed body and worse display it in a fashion that takes advantage of it’s form. You’ll rarely hear more poisonous and vicious lies told about a woman than one that’s considered ‘over’ sexed.

Apparently American women never got over feeling inadequate from going into the junior and senior high gym locker room and watching the more developed girls change. So now society has to deal with the social causes [NOW verses porn] caused by inferiority complexes. And men like PhilcoTV have their obsessions be marriage and career destroying. If model trains and football were treated the same way erotica is by women, there wouldn’t be any marriages that last more than a week. And I know men who are just as obsessed by sports and hobbies as any porn addict. It’s only an “addiction’ because it’s socially unacceptable.